Cowboys Comeback
Coming back to Dallas for the second time since moving was really wonderful. Before Amanda arrived, I went with Evan and David to see the Cowboys. I absolutely loved it. I had wanted us to do something special while in town, and this was it!
Most Important Question of my Life
That brings me to the big story of coming home. Pretty much since July, I had known the timing was starting to feel right. Ultimately, Thanksgiving seemed to be the best option so we could celebrate with the family. However, I knew Amanda wanted it to be special, so I had to trick her a bit to keep it a surprise.
"Erev Thanksgiving" as the Rabbi put it, we went to a park near her family's house. For weeks, I had been saying we'd go on a "Dallas Date Night." My brilliant plan was to then have her think it would be a three part date.
Part one was a picnic in the park. Man, was I nervous. I just kept eating so she wouldn't see how shaky I was. As we finished wrapping up the picnic blanket, I told her there was no part two. That's when I went down on one knee!
It was very quiet, the atmosphere was wonderful with the sun setting, just the two of us. The ring is her grandmother's, so it has very special meaning. To be honest, I don't remember hearing the word yes, but judging by her hug and kiss shortly following, I figured the answer was what I had been looking for.
It's so funny how technology has changed the way family news is spread now.

Of course, we immediately let our families know. However, it's tough wanting to make sure you tell everyone and not have someone see it on facebook! So, we asked everyone to wait on the social media congratulations until we had told everyone.
As soon as we put up our first message, things totally changed.
Here are some of my favorite responses we got.
From Zach Sagett - "Good to hear your finally getting wifed up! Congrats buddy"
From Charlie Hannema (also engaged) - HOUSE! That a baby! Welcome to the cool kids club.
From Sam Korotkin - "Your officially the first of any friends of mine to get married! so this is really the first time ever I've congratulated someone for getting married so I'm really not sure how it works. I guess I just say congrats?!?!
From Andrea Horowitz - "is it possible to me more excited than you?"
From Nicki Marder - "ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! omg im shaking like mad! Congrats over and over and over! I love you both!"
From Scott Schaefer - "That's something to be thankful for this Thanksgiving!!"
From Steve Chaitman - "ahhhhh! i feel this compulsive need to watch how i met your mother in the early seasons! MAZAL TOV!"
From Max Hyman - "Things (I think) I'm thankful for: The Jets barely squeaking out of 3 games in a row, hopefully another 10 win Mizzou football season (though it's a disappointment, let's remember people), Mizzou's new basketball uniforms, and Michael Rosenhouse and Amanda Paige Rude getting engaged!"
Thanksgiving
The rest of our trip was very nice. We had excellent holiday meals with both families. Food was a key factor in the trip hahaha. We had birthdays to celebrate, the first night of Hannukah, lots of wonderful things.
Since we've been back it's been mostly work for the two of us. Amanda is still settling in to her new job.
We haven't been able to do much wedding planning, but we think we have a date in mind. Socially, we had a good time at our friends' company launch party. Alex and Shavit have created a discount company called CityNomads. It's a online coupon company that is based off group buying. All the best to them!
We've just planned a new year's trip to Ho Chi Minh City. I'm excited to go back and hope Amanda will enjoy it as well.
Enjoy the holiday season!
Michael