First off, Amanda is absolutely, incredible! My love for her is as deep as it gets.
Wanted to take some time to write down how Sophie Jessica Rosenhouse made her way into the world.
Well, she took her sweet time, not caring what her "due date" was. She didn't see the eviction notice in the womb, I guess.
After having Chinese food for dinner Saturday, it turned out four days of
extra stay would be long enough for our little girl. Amanda woke me up
around 1:15 AM.
"I think my water broke, I'm gonna call the doctor," she said.
She'd been timing her contractions, and it felt like they'd become more consistent and intense. The doctor told us to come in.
With our "go bag" already in the car, we made quick calls to our parents
and drove to the hospital. Whether it was a false alarm or not, we
didn't know yet, but still, I knew this was the right move either way.
We got to the hospital around 2 AM and after some tests and contraction
measurements, the nurse told us we wouldn't be leaving without a baby!
"Okay, it's really go time," I thought to myself.
Watching Amanda go through the pain of contractions was tough. I felt helpless, even though I was trying my best to comfort her.
Thankfully, the anesthesiologist arrived quickly and the epidural made
Amanda feel much, much better. My parents got to the hospital and wished
us well, before we took naps, knowing Amanda would really need her
strength for what was to come.
Amanda's Aunt Sharon arrived around 8:15 with a beautiful baby mum the Rudes made. See, I love the mums!
Well, around 9:45ish, the doctor came in to check on Amanda and told us she was ready to start pushing!
Now here's what I didn't realize, a lot of the helping work would be
done by the labor nurse and myself, with of course Amanda as the driving
force. With us holding her legs, Amanda would make three, ten
second pushes, each time helping the baby move further and further down.
Around 10:30, the nurse (who by the way was wearing a Texans shirt
because it was Sunday-I'm sure JJ Watt would love that) predicted the
baby would be out by 11! As I jokingly said to Amanda, "it's less time
than a John Oliver show to go."
A series of pushes later and then it all became very real. We could start to see the head!
Side note: for the longest time during pregnancy, my plan was to stay
"north of the border" during labor and delivery. Well, that plan quickly
went out the door, and in hindsight, I'm glad it did. Seeing this all
was helpful for me in comforting and motivating Amanda. Also, there
literally is nothing else like it.
Back to the story. Amanda was doing great: good breathing, then pushing,
some quick chewing of ice chips and then back to breathing, pushing,
repeat. More and more, the baby's head was showing.
Around 10:50 or so, the nurse brought the doctor in. Unfortunately, Dr.
Pinell, who was our doctor throughout the pregnancy, was out of town
Saturday and Sunday (Murphy's Law some might say). Fortunately, his
partner, Dr. Maccatto, is just as well liked around the hospital.
The doctor came in, and quickly he was in position, saying "push, push, push" in his interesting accent.
Now, here comes the big moment, and it went in a flash. The doctor said
on her next series of pushes, our baby would be out. That turned out to
be true!
Finally, I realized why people had been saying the doctor would "catch
the baby." First, the baby's head squeezed out with her face pointing
in my direction, then the rest of her body just seemed to slide out into
the world!
Amanda was crying tears of joy, and I was right there with her.
There she was, a baby, quickly cleaned off in a matter of seconds. I cut
the umbilical cord, and the baby was brought to her mom's chest.
Through the tears, Amanda said "come here Sophie," and it all came
together in an instant. She was born at 11:04 AM, Sunday, September 25,
2016. All in all, from telling me her water broke until the birth, it was about 10 hours.
From there it was a bit of a whirlwind. Amanda was so tired and
immediately my thoughts started going into more of, how do I protect her,
more than being focused on the baby.
We called her parents and let them know they were officially now grandparents to Sophie Jessica Rosenhouse. They liked how the name was
easy to say. From there, I walked with a pep in my step to the waiting
area to tell my parents and Bonkie. An added benefit, my brother Evan
was already on the phone with them. I made a call to my brother David
and then returned to Amanda.
She was focusing on the first hour, skin to skin time with Sophie, as this is the
encouraged way to help Amanda bond and start creating milk.
We moved into the postpartum room. I don't want to write all about this
part, mostly because at first I was kind of disappointed. It really felt
like we were brought to the room and then basically told, "call us if
you need us."
We didn't get too much advice or instruction on how to do anything
really. I felt lost and totally unsure of myself. Some might say,
welcome to parenting, but that wasn't a feeling I enjoyed.
As the day went on, we figured out the system a bit more, and again the
protection feeling to get Amanda recovering well was very active.
We slept when we could and then started a new day. "Remember, one day at a time," I kept thinking to myself.
The rest of the time in the hospital continued with more ups and downs.
That's just gonna be the way it goes for a while (or maybe forever). In
the end, we'll just do our best to act in love and make the choices that
feel right.
Thank you to everyone for the love and support you've given. Having the
baby is really a blessing, and it will continue to shape our lives going
forward :)
-- Sophie's daddy
Tuesday, September 27, 2016
Monday, August 22, 2016
Less than a month until Baby Girl Rosenhouse
Well, it’s official - we’re now less than a month away from the due date for Baby Girl Rosenhouse.
Each day we get closer, everything becomes more real. For the first half of the pregnancy, my mind wasn’t all consumed by it, if we’re being truthful. I know for Amanda, it was much more present. Then again, she was the one growing a baby inside of her! Since entering the last trimester, the mental preparation, nervousness and dreams have all moved to the forefront personally.
Just wanted to write out a few thoughts before the world changes forever.
It’s been beautiful to watch Amanda during the pregnancy. She’s handled it incredibly well, and even in the tough times, our connection has been strong.
As far as our preparations, I like to say if we want our apartment to be 90% ready and organized on the day the baby comes (we hear you can never be fully prepared), right now we’d only be about 30%. There’s a lot of work to be done, but each day we seem to be accomplishing something that will hopefully make our lives easier later on.
We’ve now started going to the doctor once a week per his request. It’s nothing out of the norm, just the way he likes to do it. Dr. Pinell has so far been excellent for us, calmly answering all our questions and getting us ready for the big day. Each time, he does a sonogram so he can check the heartbeat. Side note: The two most memorable were the first time when we heard the heart beat for the first time, and the second was when he told us it’d be a girl. I’ll always remember holding Amanda’s ankle and seeing her cry with happiness when she realized it’d be a girl. Of course, me being a weeper, I quickly had to wipe my eyes.
Parenting prep wise, we’re midway through a Jewish Baby University class we’re taking through the Federation in Houston. So far, it’s been a great way to be around people going through the same things we are. Each week, there’s a mix of baby preparation and religious learning going. It’s been something we look forward to and hopefully that continues!
Overall, I feel pretty good about everything. Of course, I absolutely have the fear of the unknown, unsure what it will be like when we actually have to start parenting, but that’s natural. Amanda and I agree that we’ll make mistakes, but that’s all part of the process. Every kid in the world has had imperfect parents. It’s just about doing the best you can.
On that note, I frequently ask people to give me pieces of parenting advice or more specifically, ask them to share with me one thing they wish they would have known.
Here are some favorites:
Try to enjoy every moment, because they go by so quickly. A big part of this is also to try and enjoy the tough times. No one likes getting little sleep, but try and appreciate those early days because they fly by. What’s interesting about this is people point out the kid is constantly evolving, so you have to take to heart each day, because the next one brings about a different version.
Take it one day at a time. Yes, this is very much the “coach speak” I don’t enjoy during my job, but it seems to be a good way of looking at this. Step 1, get through day one, and then after that go to day two, three, four and so one. It’s simple, but I like it.
You can’t make a mistake, if you’re doing something out of love. This one follows the path of you’ll make mistakes, but don’t see them as failures, more as learning experiences.
Spend as much time as you can with your kids. This one came from our Rabbi, who basically explained, with as quickly as the kids grow, you’ll want to be a part of as many moments as they can, especially early on. He also added, work and jobs will be there and your best memories often don’t come from work, but with family. Having time with your kids decreases as they become older and start shaping their own lives, so try to take advantage early on. Others have also stressed the importance of putting family before career. It’s always a tough balance to find, but I already feel like that’s sinking in.
Enjoy helping craft a human being! This came from multiple people who talked about what it’s like once the baby and then eventually, the kid, starts to show their personality. It’s cool to see how what you’ve tried to instill in them comes through, but how they also have a mind of their own. On that note, realize the kid is always watching and seeing how you act in the world.
There’s been many more people talking about the immense love we’ll feel, how a feeling of protection immediately flows over you. Also, everyone tells us to bank as much as sleep as we can now (I promise we’re trying to!).
We’ll leave it there for now. Thank you to everyone who has been so supportive. I’m sure we’ll look for your help many times in the adventure ahead :)
Michael
Each day we get closer, everything becomes more real. For the first half of the pregnancy, my mind wasn’t all consumed by it, if we’re being truthful. I know for Amanda, it was much more present. Then again, she was the one growing a baby inside of her! Since entering the last trimester, the mental preparation, nervousness and dreams have all moved to the forefront personally.
Just wanted to write out a few thoughts before the world changes forever.
It’s been beautiful to watch Amanda during the pregnancy. She’s handled it incredibly well, and even in the tough times, our connection has been strong.
As far as our preparations, I like to say if we want our apartment to be 90% ready and organized on the day the baby comes (we hear you can never be fully prepared), right now we’d only be about 30%. There’s a lot of work to be done, but each day we seem to be accomplishing something that will hopefully make our lives easier later on.
We’ve now started going to the doctor once a week per his request. It’s nothing out of the norm, just the way he likes to do it. Dr. Pinell has so far been excellent for us, calmly answering all our questions and getting us ready for the big day. Each time, he does a sonogram so he can check the heartbeat. Side note: The two most memorable were the first time when we heard the heart beat for the first time, and the second was when he told us it’d be a girl. I’ll always remember holding Amanda’s ankle and seeing her cry with happiness when she realized it’d be a girl. Of course, me being a weeper, I quickly had to wipe my eyes.
Parenting prep wise, we’re midway through a Jewish Baby University class we’re taking through the Federation in Houston. So far, it’s been a great way to be around people going through the same things we are. Each week, there’s a mix of baby preparation and religious learning going. It’s been something we look forward to and hopefully that continues!
Overall, I feel pretty good about everything. Of course, I absolutely have the fear of the unknown, unsure what it will be like when we actually have to start parenting, but that’s natural. Amanda and I agree that we’ll make mistakes, but that’s all part of the process. Every kid in the world has had imperfect parents. It’s just about doing the best you can.
On that note, I frequently ask people to give me pieces of parenting advice or more specifically, ask them to share with me one thing they wish they would have known.
Here are some favorites:
Try to enjoy every moment, because they go by so quickly. A big part of this is also to try and enjoy the tough times. No one likes getting little sleep, but try and appreciate those early days because they fly by. What’s interesting about this is people point out the kid is constantly evolving, so you have to take to heart each day, because the next one brings about a different version.
Take it one day at a time. Yes, this is very much the “coach speak” I don’t enjoy during my job, but it seems to be a good way of looking at this. Step 1, get through day one, and then after that go to day two, three, four and so one. It’s simple, but I like it.
You can’t make a mistake, if you’re doing something out of love. This one follows the path of you’ll make mistakes, but don’t see them as failures, more as learning experiences.
Spend as much time as you can with your kids. This one came from our Rabbi, who basically explained, with as quickly as the kids grow, you’ll want to be a part of as many moments as they can, especially early on. He also added, work and jobs will be there and your best memories often don’t come from work, but with family. Having time with your kids decreases as they become older and start shaping their own lives, so try to take advantage early on. Others have also stressed the importance of putting family before career. It’s always a tough balance to find, but I already feel like that’s sinking in.
Enjoy helping craft a human being! This came from multiple people who talked about what it’s like once the baby and then eventually, the kid, starts to show their personality. It’s cool to see how what you’ve tried to instill in them comes through, but how they also have a mind of their own. On that note, realize the kid is always watching and seeing how you act in the world.
There’s been many more people talking about the immense love we’ll feel, how a feeling of protection immediately flows over you. Also, everyone tells us to bank as much as sleep as we can now (I promise we’re trying to!).
We’ll leave it there for now. Thank you to everyone who has been so supportive. I’m sure we’ll look for your help many times in the adventure ahead :)
Michael
Wednesday, September 9, 2015
Selfie Sticks in Italy
When you haven't had to full-on travel plan in a while, you shouldn't be surprised when things don't seem to go smoothly. Well, the start to our Italian adventure wasn't as creamy as risotto. We flew from Houston to Istanbul to Milan on Turkish Air. Overall, good flights and no real complaints. We got into Milan after midnight and had to figure our way to get to the airport shuttle bus. The bus would drop us close to the airport hotel we'd picked for our short stay. Well, it did drop us off somewhat near the hotel, but upon getting off the bus on a dark street, we realized the wheel to our big suitcase was broken. Great, two weeks of intense travel ahead of us and our 65 pound suitcase only has one good wheel. We set out in the morning to the airport to file a complaint with the airline, and then make our way to Venice. The complaint process was a bit frustrating, red tape, etc. Finally, we made it to the train we needed, and off to Venice we went. Well, we ended up going one stop too many, had to take another train back to the other stop, and then once we got to Mestre (the town outside Venice we stayed in), we had to figure out which bus to take to get to the hotel. So, already we'd experience planes, trains and automobiles. I'm thinking, next time, travel agency!!! We settled into the hotel before making our journey to meet Dana for dinner. Ah yes, the first introduction in this post of Dana, our great friend from our time in Singapore. Her fiancé, Zach, and her decided to get married in Italy, and when we heard, we immediately tried to figure out how we could go! Fast forward eleven months later and dinner is upon us at a restaurant at the Hilton hotel. Very nice view of the waterway, great conversation and a ravioli I hope to never forget. It was ravioli with beef inside and meat sauce on top - I used bread to mop up every bit. On top of that, the balsamic vinegar they had was delicious. After a few drinks, we adventured back to the hotel which included a bus ride that reminded me of a Singapore MRT at rush hour - loads of people, no space and some ripe smells. It worked though, getting us where we needed to be. ----- Saturday was excellent. We decided to go on a free walking tour. It took us through Venice's Jewish Ghetto (talk about Jewish guilt, walking by a synagogue with people praying on Shabbos, while Amanda and I simply tour. Must go to confessional, oops, right country, wrong religion). After, our tour guide took us across the many squares and bridges, she explained the Carnival masks that were worn and the history of the city. We found it to be a great tour lasting about two and a half hours. From there, we got lunch, first attempting a fried cheese snack (good until hitting the sardine in the middle), and then getting two slices of pizza at a stand and eating them on one of the bridges. This brings up something that bothered me a bit - the cover charge to eat at a restaurant. I understand the city's main income is tourism, but it just felt like there was a charge for everything - the restroom, a seat at the gelato shop, best not to cough, there might be a charge. I get why it's done, but still, frustrating. Turns out, the cover charge occurs all across Italy. Following lunch, we walked through the small streets to get to St. Mark's Square. The square doesn't look like any other part of Venice. It was our first taste of the beautiful and massive churches in Italy. From there, we meandered around, getting lost through the streets as we made our way to the other side of a waterway to visit a recommended gelato shop. Then, perhaps my favorite and Amanda's least favorite moment of the day. We stumbled into a showing of an opera movie. It was so weird! At first, it showed men being strapped into devices by women, and then the women were holding on to animals with different anatomical parts (a dog's head on a lizard body). Amanda quickly left, fearing nightmares, and I kept watching just for the sheer oddity of it all. We found a spot for dinner and headed back to the hotel for an early night. At least, I thought it'd be an early night. Trying to improve on my travel skills, I attempted to book our ticket to Florence for the next day. On accident, I booked the wrong day. Trying to change it online was a headache. Frustrated, we just went to bed and hoped we could figure it out the next morning at the train station. Fortunately, we were able to change the ticket at the station and off to Florence we went! ------- Our arrival into Florence was much smoother than Venice as it only took us five minutes or so to walk to the hotel. After a quick nap, we set off to lunch before a walking tour. Lunch at McDonald's was a failure. For the first time at any of the McD's we've been to around the world, they charged for ketchup! Being the cheapo I am, I opted for no ketchup. Turns out, food from there needs ketchup. Our walking tour was centered around the Medici family, which ruled Florence for three centuries. All in all, the tour was fairly average, but it gave us a sense of where everything was including the Duomo, three Medici palaces and the city hall. As our tour wrapped up, we decided to visit the David. It's a must see right? We enjoyed seeing the statue, but probably didn't appreciate all the other art work on show. Amanda and I just aren't art enthusiasts (which is obviously a huge part of Italy's tourism). From there, we bargained in a cheap shop for a suitcase (a lovely Asian woman, made me feel in my element haha. The suitcase was made in China. "Please work," I prayed). Our dinner was in a nice restaurant the hotel suggested. Amanda ordered gnocchi, which was delicious, and the cheese helped me as I accidentally ordered a cheeseless pizza! It was a simple mistake, and truthfully, it was still tasty with great dough and marinara sauce. After, we got the early night we'd been seeking. ----------- On Monday, we took a day tour to Cinque Terre, a beautiful area with five seaside towns on the coast of the Mediterranean. We'd seen pictures before our trip and didn't think we'd have time, but the day tour made it possible. The views are stunning. I would love to know what the first settlers were thinking. "Eh, there's some land that could be tough to cultivate. Screw it, there's nothing better to do!" We had gelato in one of the towns (better than our first experience) and then a nice lunch in another (pizza again- this time with cheese, yeehaw!). Shortly after, we went swimming on the beach for a little. I've always loved the water and a short little boat trip between two of the islands hadn't been enough! The bus ride back to Florence provided some excellent views of vineyards and mountain sides. For dinner, we again took the hotel's recommendation, and it was spot on for the second night in a row. The trattoria we ate in gave us a really nice dining experience. The tripadvisor reviews had all suggested the food was good, but it was geared for tourists. Well, good thing I'm a tourist! We had to wait for a table, but the host gave us prosecco while we waited. The waiter's English was excellent. The food was all very tasty (we shared a caprese salad, vegetable soup and spaghetti bolognese). The best part was the host. He understood customer service. We talked about how he's visited Houston, he gave us a discount since the hotel referred us and also gave us some chocolates on the way out. It just shows little bits of appreciation, leaves customers with a good feeling. ====== On Tuesday morning, we got a train to Lucca, a town in Tuscany, and made our way to the Airbnb we were staying at with our friend, Ben (a French friend of ours from our time in Singapore who also came in for the wedding). Here, we realized google maps works without your phone being connected to the internet, talk about a lifesaver! The apartment was inside Lucca's city walls. The town built walls in the 15th century as a means of protection. We met up with Zach and Dana and the rest of their party for lunch near a beautiful church in the center of Lucca. Amanda and I both got bruschetta sandwiches, with the difference here being cheese was melted on the bread and then the tomato topped it off. Yes, that could be considered pizza in my book, and yes, it was delicious. From there, we went with a group from the wedding up to a tower and climbed the steps to get an awesome view of the city. This really is a cool city, and for us, a real respite from the packed tourism areas of Venice and Florence. After strolling back to the apartment, stopping wherever we chose, it was nap time. We met back up with the group for dinner and enjoyed a great evening of food, prosecco and conversation. Traveling is fun, but sharing the experience with others is special. The next day, Ben and I took a nice walk through the city, seeing a street market and just figuring out things as we went. We picked up Amanda for lunch and found a quaint spot on a small street to have pizza and bruschetta. To walk it all off (or at least two bites), we walked through the city and around the city walls. It was just nice and peaceful, and it was fantastic to catch up with Ben. Wednesday night was wedding night. The ceremony was gorgeous, set in a villa overlooking a vineyard. Being a part of a wedding is a blessing in my eyes, as it's a chance to see moments of happiness unlike any others. With only about 50 people or so, the vibe was fantastic. The only downside, towards the middle of the night, I developed a headache. I tried to stick it out, but once 11 o'clock came, that's as much as I could stick around for. Thank goodness the pain subsided shortly after we got back to the apartment. Thursday, we went back to the villa for brunch with the wedding party. Because of the limited amount of people there, it really felt like everyone got to know each other well. Saying goodbye was tough, but we ripped the bandaid off so to say and can look back knowing we had a great experience and met new friends. Next up, train time again, and away to Rome. -------- Walking through Rome is unlike anything I've experienced. You look one way, you have late 19th century buildings, you look the other way, and there's ruins from more than 2,000 years ago. We first got a taste for this by walking from our hotel to dinner in Rome's Jewish Ghetto area. We met up with a friend from our time in Singapore named Lorenzo. He's an Italian, originally from Milan, but has been working in Rome with a documentary production company. Our dinner with Lorenzo and some of his friends was great. The food was nice, but getting to eat with three Italians was the best part. It was cool to hear how they talked to each other, ordered, their passion for the area, etc. Following dinner, Lorenzo played tour guide while walking back to the hotel. He knew so much about the history - very impressive. If someone came to visit me in Houston, I wouldn't be able to do nearly as well. Friday, we started with a walking tour in the morning. It took us from the Spanish Steps over to Saint Peter's Square by the Vatican. The guide pointed out one of the very cool things about Rome, it's a changing city that keeps adding to its history and was never fully abandoned. She showed how in one square, there could be four very different buildings from four different generations with completely different styles. The stand out moment for me on this day was seeing the Pantheon. It's the first domed structure of its type in the world. Incredibly, it is still in extremely good condition 2,000 years later. The interior is stacked with marble and beautiful tribute areas to two former kings of Rome and Raphael. Truly, this is on the list of most amazing things I've seen in the world. We finished the tour by the Vatican, and of course, you have to be impressed by the size. After people watching for a bit in Saint Peter's Square, we walked back toward the hotel, stopping for lunch. As we sat down, it started to pour. That felt like a sign that we should take it easy the rest of the day, and so we went back to the hotel and recharged with a nap. For dinner, we met up with Andy and Sierra Clark, two fellow Mizzou grads. They have spent the last year traveling the globe. Truthfully, it is one of the most amazing undertakings. Amanda and I had a hard enough time with two weeks of traveling and organizing, a year seems impossible. It sounds like they've had their trials, but in the end, they've seen things many of us will never get to. Dinner that night was also fun because the manager took a liking to Andy, constantly calling him "Mr. Andrew." Saturday morning, we made our way to the Vatican Museum. The rain hit just as we were standing outside. We tried to wait it out under an awning, but decided to buy a cheap umbrella. Good thing, because after thinking the rain had passed, down it came again. Amanda and I squeezed tight under the umbrella - those are the moments traveling brings, a push out of the ordinary. Once inside, we went to the spot where we were going to meet Andy and Sierra, but we couldn't find them and had no way to contact them. We decided to walk into a cafe hoping for wifi and guess who walks in, Andy and Sierra! Maybe miracles do exist inside the Vatican?!? Now that we had our buddies, we made our way through the museum. The place is majestic with artwork from head to toe, literally. In a way, it's a sensory overload. In each square of each room, there's art considered to be some of the best in the history of the world. There's statues, mosaics, busts, paintings, tapestry, ceiling decorations and more. For Amanda and me, the Sisteen Chapel was very impressive, but we didn't feel more blown away than some of the other rooms-it's just incredible. What I struggle with art is, it seems some group has decided what's good and what's not, and now the rest of us have to see it. Like I felt about the David, it's awesome, but why is it better than the sculpture of Hercules in the Vatican? The Sistine Chapel is gorgeous, but why is it so much better than the decorations in the previous three rooms? The one continual truth - what these artists did is remarkable and should be appreciated. From the Vatican, Amanda and I went on a tour that would end at the Colosseum. Unfortunately, the Trevi Fountain is being restored, but we were able to get an idea of how beautiful it is. The Forum area is quite impressive, and then the Colosseum. As a sports fan, of course this is a site to behold. Our stadiums are all built off the example set by the Colosseum. We watched the sunset from a bridge overlooking the structure and then went to dinner. Okay, now time for a dinner description. We'd passed a place each night that seemed to be packed, so we decided to try it. The wait was about thirty minutes, but we could tell this wasn't a place just aimed at tourists. The vibe in the restaurant was really good. I had a glass of prosecco while waiting for the table, and once we got to our table, the meal was worth the wait! Amanda went for an eggplant parmigiana, and I had lasagne. Holy smokes the lasagna. It was the best thing I'd had since the first night in Venice. Seriously, I may not ever order lasagna again because of how good it was. When dessert time came around, we were both full, but hey, this is vacation (plus, we'd walked about 10 miles that day, we'd earned it). We got the "chocolate salami" - deeeelcious. It was a chocolate fudge with what I believe to be some cookie dough mixed in. Let's just say, right choice. In the morning, we saw some sites with a local family. My fraternity brother, Jordan, set me up with his cousin, Stefano. Stefano brought along his three kids to show us around the forum area, giving us some great knowledge about the Arch of Titus' Jewish links, and then we also went to a museum's roof to get a birds eye view of Rome. It's a stunning way to see the city from four different directions. From there, we went inside a church, where of course, the decorations are mind blowing - perfect ambiance for the wedding taking place there. By that point, we were very close to the Jewish Ghetto, so Amanda and I said goodbye to Stefano and the kids, and went to Rome's Jewish Museum. The museum did a very nice job showing the roots of the Jews in Rome as well as some modern day aspects. There was a special section to a man who had been Chief Rabbi for about 50 years and passed away earlier this year. For lunch, we stopped in a Kosher hamburger joint called Fonzie. To me, this is the type of place that can succeed as a Kosher place in the U.S. When you go in, it's not easy to tell it's Kosher. The menu and logo are well designed and trendy. Most of all, the food is really good and reasonably priced. Next, it's time to go to the train station and head to Milan. ----------- By this point in the trip, truthfully, Amanda and I were quite ready to go home. Bouncing from city to city, in and out trains, one hotel to another is fun, but also tiring (yes, it's hard to feel sad for us vacationers, but it's the truth). In Milan, we decided to relax a bit more. Sunday night, we simply went out to dinner and then came back and watched some television. In the morning, we were lucky enough to arrange a meet up with our friend, Chloe. She still lives in Singapore, but was in Milan briefly to watch a Formula 1 race. Our reunion was wonderful. As we'd experienced a couple times on this trip, being able to pick up where you left off with friends is fantastic. We really enjoyed catching up with Chloe and getting updates on Singapore life and the people still there. Of course, it made both of us miss living there, but that's just how it is. Leaving Singapore has been, and always will be tough because of the friends we had to say goodbye to. Enough sap though, getting to see Chloe was the highlight of our Milan visit. After meeting her for breakfast, Amanda and I planned on going on a walking tour. Too bad that like many others expecting the tour, for some reason, no guide showed up. We made the best of the situation, walking with an Australian couple to see a statue of Leonardo Da Vinci, the Galleria shopping area and the Duomo of Milan. This church has one of the most amazing outsides to a building I've seen. Built in gothic style, there seem to be steeples everywhere. From there, we walked around a bit before grabbing a quick lunch at McDonald's. My bad feeling from our first experience in Florence was quickly dissolved as this one had far better service. Yes, I gave in and paid for ketchup - just had to do it. One thing definitely sticking out about Milan, the fashion. Easily, this is the best dressed city I've seen. All the men seemed to wear these fantastic suits. In all reality, I'm glad my life doesn't require suits on a daily basis, but man, it's fun to think about. We got on the train to head out to the airport area. The hotel we were staying at for the night (we had a 6:45 AM flight the next day and the airport isn't close to Milan's center) was about 10 minutes drive from the airport in a small town. What was great is they offered an included car service to get us to and from the airport. For dinner, we found a pizzeria a short walk (along a little farm road, because that's how Amanda and I do) from the hotel. It was very nice and a good final meal in Italy. We went back to the hotel and went to sleep early. That folks, wraps up our Italian journey. Six cities in 13 days. Final notes: - I love pizza. It's always been my favorite food, and we had pizza 8 times on the trip. The Italian pizza normally has a thin crust, but one of my favorites came in Milan where the restaurant served big slices with a thick crust and plenty of cheese. - Cheese, oh cheese. In addition to pizza, we had three or four caprese salads with delicious mozzarella. It's funny to think that only four years ago, I never had cold cheese. - In some restaurants, our service was excellent, in others we were clearly a nuisance to the staff's very important lives. It was kind of amazing how drastically different some restaurant people were from city to city. Rome's waiters clearly take advantage of not working for tips. - "Beware pickpockets." That message came up every time we bought train tickets. Apparently, it's a pretty big issue. Fortunately, traveling together, Amanda and I are pretty good about looking out for each other. One thing I hated in the train station were people hanging out by the ticket stalls trying to "help." These people are clearly trying to get a tip, or maybe have something else going on to take advantage of tourists. Why isn't there more security staff to keep these people out of the station? - Cigarettes weren't nearly as bad as I'd expected. Yes, people have no problem letting their puffs fly right near your face, but it didn't seem as prevalent as I thought it would. Plus, my expectations were for the hotel rooms to all stink from the smoke, but none did. - We reached Fitbit levels we've never seen before! Amanda and I walked an average of 18,000 steps a day (roughly 9 miles or so). Not sure my body was quite ready for it, as I got blisters on two of my toes, and by the end, my ankles could feel it as well. We just pushed on through though. Come on, had to offset all that pizza! - Last but not least, the name of this blog, selfie sticks. We haven't been in intense tourist areas in a while, because apparently the sale of cheap selfie sticks are everywhere. At every tourist site, men (apparently from Bangladesh a friend said) sell the cheaply made selfie sticks to the all too willing customers. Everywhere you turn, "Selfie stick? Selfie stick, sir?" I get it, everyone needs to make a living, but it can really take away from the trying to let a site sink in. Alright, enough rabble rabble - a great trip overall with lots of friends, food and experiences. Would I have planned a few things better? Absolutely, but that's how traveling goes. Sometimes, the most memorable parts of trips are when things go wrong. Best to just enjoy, ciao! |
Wednesday, November 20, 2013
The Great and Wonderful Australia
Australia totally lived up to my expectations. Granted, we only stayed in Sydney and surrounding areas, but that showed how cool the country is.
We got in on Saturday morning and were surprised at how chilly it was. Our first decision was to visit Bondi Beach.
With sunshine ahead, we sat in the sand and just relaxed. Later on, we settled into our apartment, and then finished the night by walking to a local pizza place.
Despite waking up to wet and cold conditions on Sunday, we still had a packed day.
Amanda and I met our friends Kathryn, Christina and Chris for brunch by the beach. Then we took a great walk to view “Sculptures by the Sea.” While the exhibit was cool, I was more impressed with the nature sites.
Afterwards, we met up with another Singapore friend, David Isaac. I loved the coffee shop we visited - the hot chocolate was awesome.
From there, we drove to Chris & Kat’s place for a barbecue feast (the start of our love affair with beef on this trip). The night was full of great food and conversation.
Monday, we’d planned to go on a walking tour of Sydney, but as there was more wet weather, it became a museum day. We visited the Jewish Museum of Sydney and The Rocks Discovery Museum.
Both taught us about how the English made Australia a penal colony. It was cool to see how Jews have made a major impact in Sydney and throughout the country. As for The Rocks museum, it showed again how colonization destroyed native culture - really quite sad. We really enjoyed learning about that history though.
That night we met another group of Singapore friends, Elliot & Giovana. They brought their beautiful baby girl to our ribs dinner. Another great night of conversation, and yes, meat again. (Getting to dinner was adventure, full of missed turns and driving on the Sydney Harbor Bridge)
We spent Tuesday-Thursday in Hunter Valley - one of the main wine producing areas in the country. The weather and atmosphere were perfect. The sun hit on the vineyards and hill sides. We had contrasting meals - one night in a fancy schmancy restaurant, the next, going into town to get Thai food!
The two best activities were taking a tour of wineries and then visiting the zoo (although, there was an epic nap that gets consideration). The zoo was very cool as Amanda and I got to pet koalas and also see kangaroos.
We headed back into the city and spent the next couple of days with Kathryn and Chris.
With the weather being better, we took the walking tour around Sydney. This was one of the highlights of the trip for sure. The guide doesn’t charge for the tour, only working off tips. He was very funny, and the three hour tour did a great job showing off the downtown/harbor area.
At night, we visited The Great Synagogue in Sydney. It was one of the most beautiful shuls I’ve ever been in. It felt like Westminster Abbey, but Aussie Jewish style. Sadly, for as beautiful as the shul was, there weren’t many people there, and the service was not our style.
We followed that up with one last meat paradise meal - Hurricanes. This place is famous for their ribs, and it’s clear why. We had such a great meal there.
We went to brunch the next day before heading back to Singapore.
OVERALL NOTES
We got in on Saturday morning and were surprised at how chilly it was. Our first decision was to visit Bondi Beach.
With sunshine ahead, we sat in the sand and just relaxed. Later on, we settled into our apartment, and then finished the night by walking to a local pizza place.
Despite waking up to wet and cold conditions on Sunday, we still had a packed day.
Amanda and I met our friends Kathryn, Christina and Chris for brunch by the beach. Then we took a great walk to view “Sculptures by the Sea.” While the exhibit was cool, I was more impressed with the nature sites.
Afterwards, we met up with another Singapore friend, David Isaac. I loved the coffee shop we visited - the hot chocolate was awesome.
From there, we drove to Chris & Kat’s place for a barbecue feast (the start of our love affair with beef on this trip). The night was full of great food and conversation.
Monday, we’d planned to go on a walking tour of Sydney, but as there was more wet weather, it became a museum day. We visited the Jewish Museum of Sydney and The Rocks Discovery Museum.
Both taught us about how the English made Australia a penal colony. It was cool to see how Jews have made a major impact in Sydney and throughout the country. As for The Rocks museum, it showed again how colonization destroyed native culture - really quite sad. We really enjoyed learning about that history though.
That night we met another group of Singapore friends, Elliot & Giovana. They brought their beautiful baby girl to our ribs dinner. Another great night of conversation, and yes, meat again. (Getting to dinner was adventure, full of missed turns and driving on the Sydney Harbor Bridge)
We spent Tuesday-Thursday in Hunter Valley - one of the main wine producing areas in the country. The weather and atmosphere were perfect. The sun hit on the vineyards and hill sides. We had contrasting meals - one night in a fancy schmancy restaurant, the next, going into town to get Thai food!
The two best activities were taking a tour of wineries and then visiting the zoo (although, there was an epic nap that gets consideration). The zoo was very cool as Amanda and I got to pet koalas and also see kangaroos.
We headed back into the city and spent the next couple of days with Kathryn and Chris.
With the weather being better, we took the walking tour around Sydney. This was one of the highlights of the trip for sure. The guide doesn’t charge for the tour, only working off tips. He was very funny, and the three hour tour did a great job showing off the downtown/harbor area.
At night, we visited The Great Synagogue in Sydney. It was one of the most beautiful shuls I’ve ever been in. It felt like Westminster Abbey, but Aussie Jewish style. Sadly, for as beautiful as the shul was, there weren’t many people there, and the service was not our style.
We followed that up with one last meat paradise meal - Hurricanes. This place is famous for their ribs, and it’s clear why. We had such a great meal there.
We went to brunch the next day before heading back to Singapore.
OVERALL NOTES
- Australia seems like a place Amanda and I could live in. Although, it definitely comes with a heavy price tag.
- Driving on the left side of the road wasn’t as bad as I expected. After the initial airport to apartment drive was over, it became more comfortable. Still, I kept turning on the wipers when I meant to put on the turn signal.
- The food there is wonderful. I could see a new wardrobe being needed if we stayed there too long.
- The best part of the trip to me was the people. It was so much fun to visit a new country, but getting to see friends made it truly special.
Saturday, March 9, 2013
Amanda and Michael’s Myanmar Top 5
Shwedagon Pagoda
This is probably the iconic image of Burma, and we went to visit on the first day of our trip. The gold temple is quite a sight to behold.
While we got there at dusk, the visit really became fantastic when the sun went down. The gold of the temple is sharper with the night sky.
Candy Kids
Throughout our travels in SE Asia, young children have often come up to us asking us to buy things or wanting donations. Amanda and I feel it’s better to give them something of use rather than money, which may not really go to the kids. So, this time around we finally smarted up, and brought with us granola bars.
The best part is one group of kids came up to Amanda (which by the way, happened very rarely), she gave them the granola bars and then they ran off saying they got candy! I wonder what they thought when they realized they’d been tricked by a nutritious cereal bar.
Bagan Sunset
There are about 2,000 Buddhist temples in the city of Bagan. We visited quite a few during the day, and then at sunset, we climbed up one to get a better view.
The height really helped to show that as far as the eye could see, it was one temple after another.
Inle Market
This is in my top 5 vacation things we’ve done while living over here. Inle Lake itself is very impressive with floating gardens, houses on stilts, and beautiful temples. I loved the market the most.
We woke up early, got in our little boat, and ventured over to a market that’s open only once a week. Farmers and villagers from the surrounding towns come early to sell their fruits, vegetables, candies, etc.
Unlike many of the markets we’ve been to in SE Asia, this one really felt authentic. It wasn’t half for locals and half to sell cheap knick knacks for tourists. Many of the villagers wear traditional tribal outfits with head dresses and long pants. I just loved the place.
Yangon Synagogue
We finished our trip back in Yangon. On Friday night, we visited the old synagogue that was built in English colonial times. It really reminded me of the shul in Singapore. The biggest difference is that this one is now almost exclusively used for show, as opposed to use. The community there is down to about 20 people. It’s great that the synagogue is still being taken care of, and we loved getting to be there on a Friday night.
Monday, October 8, 2012
Butterfly Kisses
There are moments in life when you know you’re exactly in the place you’re supposed to be. This trip back to Dallas was full of those moments.
Back in May, Amanda and I decided we’d surprise our families by coming home for Rosh Hashanah. Over the next couple of months, a lot of little events started to come into play.
Most importantly, my Mom set a date for a surgery to fix the mitral valve in her heart - September 18th, three days after our arrival.
Leading up to the surgery, I think besides my mom and dad, most of us in the family weren’t overly concerned. While there’s always a risk with heart surgery, all the reports and information I’d read made it seem like a fairly routine procedure.
Well, long story short, the valve repair went fine, but the right side of Mom’s heart didn’t respond well to the surgery. The doctor described her as critical. My mind kept racing - no way, this isn’t right. Critical? She was supposed to have surgery and then pop back up in a week or so. Critical? Isn’t that the term I hear on TV dramas?
It led to some very scary moments and days, but for the most part, I always had faith that the doctors would figure it out and that Mama would get things turned around.
For the next 10 days, she was under sedation as the medical staff threw “the kitchen sink” at her. They were playing a constant balance game to make sure that she was getting better.
This is where I feel like it was a blessing to be home. How would I have been able to handle this in Singapore? I’d be checking my phone every five minutes. I needed to be there with my family.
And this was the moment I didn’t want to miss. Friday, September 28, 2012. My mom’s 61st birthday, and she delivered her own present. Mama was able to wake up, get the breathing tube out and get her body working on its own.
We hear the term “heart” all the time in sports, well, talk about showing Texas size heart. It’d be tough to make the script any better.
With the understanding of my office in Singapore, I was able to extend my stay for an extra week. It was incredible to watch her get better day by day. Each time there’d be something new - more talking or being able to pick up and eat blue berries by herself. Small things that most of us take for granted, but for Mama, they’re giant steps on the road to recovery.
While this trip was spent mostly at the hospital, that actually afforded me more time with the family. There was still time for some great barbeque, mum making with the Rudes and maybe the highlight, my first ever eagle on a golf course.
As good as an eagle is, nothing will compare to seeing my mom awake again. It’s tough to feel so helpless. This is the woman that raised me, and it’s difficult to just sit aside while she’s asleep.
Seeing her talking, even if it is struggled because of a sore throat, lifts a huge worry. She’s getting better day by day, but she still has a long way to go.
****
Anyone that knows Mom can tell you she doesn’t lack for showing affection. Whoever you are, you’re the perfect size for hugging - we’ve all heard that right? Well, in the hospital bed it’s much harder for her to wrap her arms around you, but we shared in of our oldest traditions, butterfly kisses.
A rare way to tell someone you love them with all your heart.
Back in May, Amanda and I decided we’d surprise our families by coming home for Rosh Hashanah. Over the next couple of months, a lot of little events started to come into play.
Most importantly, my Mom set a date for a surgery to fix the mitral valve in her heart - September 18th, three days after our arrival.
Leading up to the surgery, I think besides my mom and dad, most of us in the family weren’t overly concerned. While there’s always a risk with heart surgery, all the reports and information I’d read made it seem like a fairly routine procedure.
Well, long story short, the valve repair went fine, but the right side of Mom’s heart didn’t respond well to the surgery. The doctor described her as critical. My mind kept racing - no way, this isn’t right. Critical? She was supposed to have surgery and then pop back up in a week or so. Critical? Isn’t that the term I hear on TV dramas?
It led to some very scary moments and days, but for the most part, I always had faith that the doctors would figure it out and that Mama would get things turned around.
For the next 10 days, she was under sedation as the medical staff threw “the kitchen sink” at her. They were playing a constant balance game to make sure that she was getting better.
This is where I feel like it was a blessing to be home. How would I have been able to handle this in Singapore? I’d be checking my phone every five minutes. I needed to be there with my family.
And this was the moment I didn’t want to miss. Friday, September 28, 2012. My mom’s 61st birthday, and she delivered her own present. Mama was able to wake up, get the breathing tube out and get her body working on its own.
We hear the term “heart” all the time in sports, well, talk about showing Texas size heart. It’d be tough to make the script any better.
With the understanding of my office in Singapore, I was able to extend my stay for an extra week. It was incredible to watch her get better day by day. Each time there’d be something new - more talking or being able to pick up and eat blue berries by herself. Small things that most of us take for granted, but for Mama, they’re giant steps on the road to recovery.
While this trip was spent mostly at the hospital, that actually afforded me more time with the family. There was still time for some great barbeque, mum making with the Rudes and maybe the highlight, my first ever eagle on a golf course.
As good as an eagle is, nothing will compare to seeing my mom awake again. It’s tough to feel so helpless. This is the woman that raised me, and it’s difficult to just sit aside while she’s asleep.
Seeing her talking, even if it is struggled because of a sore throat, lifts a huge worry. She’s getting better day by day, but she still has a long way to go.
****
Anyone that knows Mom can tell you she doesn’t lack for showing affection. Whoever you are, you’re the perfect size for hugging - we’ve all heard that right? Well, in the hospital bed it’s much harder for her to wrap her arms around you, but we shared in of our oldest traditions, butterfly kisses.
A rare way to tell someone you love them with all your heart.
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Turning a Quarter
25 Years.
When I think of a 25-year-old athlete, words like prime, quickness and future come to mind.
Well, I’m not an athlete, but I do think I’m quick witted in a prime place in my life, and I can only hope the future is just as bright.
25 Years.
There’s so many milestones to think of in the first 25 years of life. Let’s start with birth. Okay, let’s quickly move past that eye opening experience ;) Then there’s learning to walk, talk, play, learn, love. There’s Bar Mitzvah, driving test, high school and college graduations, first job...and then for some early achievers, maybe even a wedding.
25 Years.
My first quarter century in this world has been an absolute whirlwind - one that I feel extremely grateful to be chosen for. From Dallas to Missouri to Singapore, life has never been dull in any place.
25 Years.
This year, I’ve seen so much that makes me feel fortunate for my lot in life. We often nitpick to find what’s wrong in our lives, instead of enjoying what’s in front of us.
In May, Amanda and I visited Siem Reap, Cambodia - a very significant trip for us. Yes, we saw the historical sites, but what I can never forget will be our visit of the present landscape.
Taking a tour to the outskirts of the city centre, we saw the shacks people are living in. It’s a place where daily life is a struggle. Yet, the sight that will always stick out to me was watching a group of kids play on the river bank. There was pure joy - a love of life that was clear in how much fun they were having. Here are young people that maybe have no idea what situation they’re in....or maybe they have it all figured out. Even in the face of a harsh reality, the kids just live for the moment.
The Next 25 Years.
Each day is not given, so it’s presumptive to talk about what the next 25 years would be like.
I can only hope there are moments of joy like the first quarter century has provided. I can only hope to be continued to be surrounded by loving family, friends and a supportive wife. I can only hope to live knowing that time shouldn’t be wasted.
I’d like to send a deep and heartfelt thank you to all of my family and friends from across the globe. It’s much easier to enjoy life when there are always people on your side.
L’Chaim!
Michael
When I think of a 25-year-old athlete, words like prime, quickness and future come to mind.
Well, I’m not an athlete, but I do think I’m quick witted in a prime place in my life, and I can only hope the future is just as bright.
25 Years.
There’s so many milestones to think of in the first 25 years of life. Let’s start with birth. Okay, let’s quickly move past that eye opening experience ;) Then there’s learning to walk, talk, play, learn, love. There’s Bar Mitzvah, driving test, high school and college graduations, first job...and then for some early achievers, maybe even a wedding.
25 Years.
My first quarter century in this world has been an absolute whirlwind - one that I feel extremely grateful to be chosen for. From Dallas to Missouri to Singapore, life has never been dull in any place.
25 Years.
This year, I’ve seen so much that makes me feel fortunate for my lot in life. We often nitpick to find what’s wrong in our lives, instead of enjoying what’s in front of us.
In May, Amanda and I visited Siem Reap, Cambodia - a very significant trip for us. Yes, we saw the historical sites, but what I can never forget will be our visit of the present landscape.
Taking a tour to the outskirts of the city centre, we saw the shacks people are living in. It’s a place where daily life is a struggle. Yet, the sight that will always stick out to me was watching a group of kids play on the river bank. There was pure joy - a love of life that was clear in how much fun they were having. Here are young people that maybe have no idea what situation they’re in....or maybe they have it all figured out. Even in the face of a harsh reality, the kids just live for the moment.
The Next 25 Years.
Each day is not given, so it’s presumptive to talk about what the next 25 years would be like.
I can only hope there are moments of joy like the first quarter century has provided. I can only hope to be continued to be surrounded by loving family, friends and a supportive wife. I can only hope to live knowing that time shouldn’t be wasted.
I’d like to send a deep and heartfelt thank you to all of my family and friends from across the globe. It’s much easier to enjoy life when there are always people on your side.
L’Chaim!
Michael
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